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It has been very helpful for me thus far. I just started listening to them myself and it has revealed some very backward perspectives that I held about work.
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The problem isn't finding what one is able to do--it's lack of jobs. Thunderhammer in Richmond, Virginia. You know, I have been reading this post and I have the same opinion as many of you.
Crappy minimum-wage jobs just don't cut it for those of us supporting a family. But I've always wanted to do something with my life, something I could enjoy, at least on a moderate level. And I do believe that's my main issue. How can I decide what I wish to pursue when I know that everything is "rigged"? That everything has a stupid little "catch" successfup makes a lot of otherwise fun careers unenjoyable?
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Riot in Massachusetts said: Gay south africans, I think many people steer through life this way. Some even manage to pull their hobbies into small components of their jobs to make a day or two more enjoyable. I suppose the other answer would be too hook up to a job that has coworkers with the personality that successful in professional life but love life sucks 30 40 like And I'm not trying to be "philisophical", that was a legitamate question.
When I figured out what I might want to do, I picked up small, freelance jobs to prove that I could do the job and to test whether I liked it.
The down side is that I sometimes pulled all-nighters to do. At age 40, I was a full time working mom with 5 year old twins and would sometimes stay up all night to do freelance jobs. It took me about three suckz to transition into the occupation I loved.
If you are 25 years old, I bet it would be easier for you, unless you are a single mom. Then, it would be rather hellish, but still possible. The problem with that, at least for me, would be that picking up freelance jobs means that the income would be unreliable, unless the work kept rolling in.
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That is not the solution. Seeing all these people whine about that they have made a mistake when they didn't take the action to do what they wanted to is an example for us not to made the same mistake as they did. We aren't meant to live like. That's why it feels awful. We are meant to get up how to get over a fight with your best friend it's light out, go out and smell fresh air, see the dew on the grass, and work the soil.
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I just left another job in which I worked myself up to being supervisor in a career field I actually like, but can't seem to like my job because upper management had everything so screwed up. It's like they enjoy setting up the employees for failure everyday. Overworked and understaffed, and always the peon's fault. Shingami in Chicago, Illinois. This is exactly me! I have been mucking around for the last 20 years. Of course now that I'm not even my 30's anymore, it hit me like a ton of bricks that I have done nothing with my life all these years.
I'm tired of going from one job I don't want to another and barely making enough money to even enjoy life. The years go by so fast and I have no life to show for it. That is how bad things are. And as far as materialism goes, well, you should be able to buy material things because they do make you happy, regardless of what some may say.
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Sick of this life. Yeah you said it friend! I'm 29 and have been struggling with this problem for some time. The thing is education means very little, my sister has a 1st class masters degree in chemical engineering and no one will employ her because she is over qualified! Its a sad world. I dont feel satisfied in any job. The longest I professional in a job was about 10months. I honestly think this whole way of life is mass producing depression.
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Nightbob in Raymond, New Hampshire. Nobody is forcing you to do anything, if you want to live like a middle class American you have to do those things but otherwise you don't. Seems to be a lot of misunderstanding and lack of gratitude among people that don't get. JonnyC in Brooklyn, New York. So your solution is to live like a caveman? Gee thanks buddy, I couldn't figure that one out. BRB dumping everything I have woman seeking sex tonight Hardwick Vermont go live in the forest because nobody is "forcing" me to do.
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